Wednesday, September 15, 2010

My *favorite* thing to hear

(please note the *asterisks of sarcasm*)

"You're so SMART! Why didn't you go to medical school?"

This comment doesn't just come from little old people who don't know any better. Residents who are younger than I am have said this crap to me.

Just THINKING about this comment makes my head want to explode. Please, people. Don't EVER say that to a nurse.

I'm a nurse because I want to be a NURSE. If I wanted to be a doctor, I would have been a doctor. By god, if I wanted to be a freaking FIRE TRUCK I WOULD BE A GODDAMN FIRETRUCK!

Ok, sorry, rant over.

19 comments:

Loki said...

Yeaaaaaaaa, heard that a lot.

It sucks

nurse XY said...

So, um, what kind of firetruck would you be?

Pumper? Ladder?

Anonymous said...

agree agree agree agree! 100 bajillion times over! people be stupid.

nurse8

Christine-Megan said...

Right, cause most people who got into nursing school, finished school, and passed NCLEX are idiots.

*sigh*

I could have been a doctor, but wasn't in the mood for $250k in debt or waiting til I'm in my 30s to start my career. I also like being OFF on my days off.

Tex said...

And a man is a Nurse because he couldn't cut it in Medical School. Yeah, right.

Christine-Megan said...

Tex- Or because he's gay. Duh. There's no such thing as a straight male nurse.

Anonymous said...

Or perhaps you could see it for the compliment that it likely is. Just a thought.

minimedic said...

So, how does one become a fire truck?

Think about it: Hot, muscular men driving you around while you make lots of noise, being washed and maintained by said hot firefighters on a regular basis, being the center of attention...the perks go on. =)

Scrub Ninja said...

I was told that on my very first day of clinicals ever. Worse, the woman who said that to me was the RN I was working with! I was so surprised, I don't even remember how I responded.

ERP said...

When I was a kid I asked my Mom that question - since she was a nurse (and later got her MSN)and my Dad was a doctor. My Mom is every bit as smart as my Dad so I was like "Why not be a doctor?" Her answer was " In the early 60's women were treated like crap and I never even considered becoming one".
That got me thinking. How many RN's back then would have become MD's had the climate been different? Probably a lot since the ratio of male:female MD's is about 50%.
Just like the ratio of male:female RN's has gone up.
People can be what they want (for the most part) without dealing with sterotypes as much.

Eileen said...

I went to med school but left after a year because I decided it wasn't worth starving for 6 years (not the US, no way of getting money in GB in the 70s if your parents didn't have it). In retrospect - one of the better decisions I made as I look at a lot of my peers and the $£@* they deal with and have suffered. I don't have buckets full of money - but I do have a lot of other things I wouldn't have had. I think it was a fair enough swap. Doesn't make me any less of a person...

Dr. Mongo Lloyd said...

I wanna be a fire truck, but every time I mention it I end up locked up and talking to shrinks for a week.

C said...

How about, "you're so smart, why didn't you become an officer?"

Me: "No thanks, I like working for a living." Same response from my husband. He may make less than the officers, but his headaches are far smaller.

Anonymous said...

"I make more money as a nurse !" would have been pretty accurate too....

Anonymous said...

I'm sure she'd love being sprayed down whilst being backed into the garage by hot guys.

- hubbins

StevenKing said...

My wife left nursing to go to medical school. Not a bad choice - better autonomy.

GuitarGirlRN said...

@stevenking: yeah, but you have to want to be a doctor. I don't. I like being a nurse. Nurses are much more than just the "doctor's handmaiden" these days. Also, nurse practitioners in my state are autonomous. Where I work we have a resident who used to be a nurse. She's miserable.

firefighter girl said...

I feel you! People used to ask me all the time why on earth I became a medic when I could have been a nurse . . .

Jannet Mathews said...

Yeah, that's a pretty common misapprehension. Perhaps it's because some people see a thin line between a nurse and a doctor since the two usually operate in the same workplace. Having said that, the two professions coexist harmoniously, so there shouldn't be any friction in the first place.